Ben SchilatyMay 1117 minA Love Letter to the Other Moms“Look around. Who needs you and your influence? If we really want to make a difference, it will happen as we mother those we have borne...
Ben SchilatyNov 6, 20238 minUp to DateI have been so open and so public about my choice to be a single, openly gay Latter-day Saint that, to maintain a spirit of openness and...
Benjamin SchilatyAug 2, 20234 minHurt Hearts and New StartsIn every relationship with someone I deeply love–parents, siblings, roommates, friends–I have hurt them or they have hurt me. When humans...
Benjamin SchilatyJul 12, 20233 minSome Thoughts on Charlie and Ryan's EngagementIn the weeks since Charlie and Ryan publicly announced their engagement, I’ve received a lot of messages about their decision to get...