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A Walk in My Shoes
Dianna and I at Costco buying food for a church activity.  At this moment neither of us was aware that I would be coming out to her in a...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jun 30, 20157 min read
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Summer Camp for Spanish Teachers
This year I was invited to attend the AP reading in Cincinnati, Ohio. More than 1,000 Spanish teachers from around the country and I...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jun 22, 20153 min read
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My New Home
I had Phil, Danielle, Carl, and Maggie over for dinner last week. Â This was the first time I'd invited Maggie over for dinner. Â She asked...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jun 10, 20151 min read
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Middle Naming
A week and a half ago I woke up at 6:00 am to the sound of a new email on my phone. I rolled over and groggily read the email that said...

Benjamin Schilaty
May 20, 20154 min read
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A Home for Ben
When I moved back into my house last August one of the first things my roommate Rick asked me was when I'd be moving out. This didn't...

Benjamin Schilaty
Apr 24, 20154 min read
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Ten Years Ago Today
Ten years ago today I woke up feeling nervous and excited at the mission offices of the Mexico Chihuahua Mission. The previous day I had...

Benjamin Schilaty
Feb 23, 20155 min read
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Benjamin Schilaty
Feb 9, 20150 min read
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How Did I End Up Here?
Last week all the group fitness classes at the U of A rec center were free. Phil was pumped about this and invited me to go to a class...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jan 27, 20152 min read
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The Death of Hannah Montana
I spent the summer of 2008 doing an internship in Mexico. I'd get home from work very tired just wanting to veg out and watch TV....

Benjamin Schilaty
Jan 14, 20154 min read
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Post #3--Charity: Love Everyone
LeAnne and I. Isn't she a knockout?I could tell story after story of people who have shared my burdens and let me talk about my...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jan 7, 20155 min read
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Post #2--Charity: The Love of Parents
I just want to thank everyone who took the time to send me comments yesterday. I had a wonderful time reading them. I especially...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jan 6, 20154 min read
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Post #1--Time to Be Honest about Being Gay
That Your Burdens May Be Light My cell phone rang. "Do you want to go for a walk tonight?" Both relieved and surprised by this invitation...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jan 5, 20159 min read
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Cafe Rio Overload
I went to the Cafe Rio here in Washington with my brother Jay and his wife Audrey on Tuesday. They had never been before which blew me...

Benjamin Schilaty
Jan 2, 20152 min read
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Throwback Tuesday
Update: Since my last post I got a new job! I'm going to be a TA for a cinema class. It's a general education class and a good friend...

Benjamin Schilaty
Dec 30, 20142 min read
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At Least I Didn't Buy an Eraser
Two days ago I got a phone call from the Spanish department informing me that because of low enrollment I hadn't been assigned any...

Benjamin Schilaty
Dec 11, 20142 min read
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Greek Life
Yesterday at age 30 I walked into a sorority house for the first time. On Tuesday after class one of my students approached me and said,...

Benjamin Schilaty
Nov 20, 20143 min read
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Fun Merit Badges
This is what hanging out with fun Laura is like. Â On Saturday we decided to get dinner together and I said we should get Vietnamese food...

Benjamin Schilaty
Oct 27, 20142 min read
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House Hunters Peru
On Saturday, May 10th I showered and got dressed at my house in Arizona knowing that I wouldn't change my clothes or shower again until...

Benjamin Schilaty
May 16, 20142 min read
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Honesty is the Mexican Policy
On Friday I took a solo road trip to El Paso to visit some friends from my mission. The plan was to spend the night in El Paso at...

Benjamin Schilaty
May 6, 20142 min read
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The Worst Interview I Ever Had
In November 2010 I applied to spend summer of 2011 working for a non-profit in El Salvador. To make a long story very short, I was...

Benjamin Schilaty
Feb 24, 20145 min read
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